miércoles, 19 de octubre de 2011

FEMENINE LONLINESS

The loneliness in women, it is always more delicate than in men. Women usually live longer installed on the feeling. But the truth is that we are all alone.The accompanying feeling is that, a feeling, nothing more. So where we are assailed by the idea of ​​having someone physically close, we might feel less alone or accompanied.On the other hand, the woman suffers mostly because they live in the attachment. Are said to be more attached than men. That is, they are taught to be closer to the house, their trainers. The man on the other hand, comes and goes. Sometimes this home and others sharing the road.The feeling of loneliness is when one begins to realize that the world is full of absurdities and incoherent things that do not lead to anything. People are very distracted by irrelevant situations and dedication to others so sentimental, not carried out, not the exercise.On the other hand, when you have a great need for recognition, then the situation is further complicated because either buy friendship and companionship, or have to run the risk of becoming dependent on people, indeed, need not take care of anyone. People are your thing, are interested in what you and many times not even that, live like the wind vanes move at will and never will be delivered to anyone. At best, they have limitations to do so, at worst, only interested in somebody some time and then get bored and leave the others in the same way as they appeared in their lives. That hurts a lot and further exacerbates the feeling of loneliness deepens.Perhaps the crux of the matter lies in discovering our inner ideas that are attractive and they enjoy ourselves, enjoy our inner world. There, it is the real company, and to that inner wealth that we get to focus on what they know we really like ourselves. Because sometimes our interiors are full of matters outside ourselves, in real distress. We believe that we installed it ourselves and that is outside the damn we have internalized and believe us, then it is for this reason, we also running away from us there. Hell hell outside and inside, that's the last straw, absurdity of absurdities. The feeling of loneliness, on the rise.The existential task our efforts should be to detect, so pleased with what we have within us.It's a little like discovering our mission in life. It's not as difficult as it seems. Exercise requires only moment of reflection and entertain us time to carry out this task or adventure to our true inner universe. That's what great men have done: They find the task that distinguishes them from others, put in order their ideas and engage in body and soul to it, that's going to last a lifetime where they are accompanied or alone, free or captive. At the time these characters do not care, live every day what that tells task and there is no weariness to them or if the distances are very withdrawn or not or whether or not eat, or if someone wants to be with them or not , they only want to live intensely your stay here at the absurdity we all live, you know the club, but do not engage in it, do not bother others, not to get distracted with selfless people lost everything and that all the manipulating live, without linking to anyone promoting the void.Solitude, exists only for the person empties, who have not discovered that attracts them, going from one place to another, always boring. Our real world is inside, not the outside, that's like an illusion and no one can control and there triumphs the most damage is done or trickier. That sensible people live makes a grain of sand on a vast sandy desert. They feel lost, as lost, lonely.
 
The task, perhaps, is devoted in body and soul to the most liked and fit, intrinsic preferences. Vibrate intensely strong commitment to engage with self and with it all is changed and begin to appear the things that interest the outside world begins to make sense of the external sense not because you begin to perceive each other eyes instantlyActually, the outside world becomes a discovery, each output to be there, look for something else enrriquezca we discovered in our inner world. Life becomes adventure and that's life is an adventure to die but to die living in what we like, not silly or stupid in a world of vested interests alien to our real essence. The world of landscapes, sunsets, the volcanoes, the rivers, the beautiful birds.
 
When you discover the inner wealth, you get to a bookshop and choose the books you know more enrriquece interior. If going away, is what matters and then the journey becomes more and learn to see what really pleases and satisfies, while others only have to conform to get from here to there, aimlessly, aimlessly.The inner wealth that is truly authentic, is what guides us in this world of confusion and disorder, and even allows newspaper to start the fun out interesting. Company is not needed. If so, win-win and if not, nothing is lost. Also, people settled, leaving only those who accompanied enrriquecen and so too, there is the healthy coexistence, the possibilities of eternal friendship links that mitigate the loneliness ... It is necessary to grasp all this because of the loneliness that comes from the inner world is also part of the same creativity and so focused, even demand, is required, it is very necessary.True, the woman has a lot of feelings of loneliness, if the company claims. But in a man's world nobody unresolved may accompany

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